You can go home again.
It was
eye-opening to return to Alaska and visit tourist sites I first saw in the
1980s. Gravel roads are now paved, homes newly built in dense forests, rudimentary
visitor cabins upgraded, luxury boats added to boat tours and the now
ubiquitous souvenir gift shops. Old haunts made new. There was a comforting
feeling of familiarity but with a new polish and I loved it! It was especially
thrilling to share travel experiences with old (Gracie) and new (Sue) friends.
It wasn’t a ho-hum trip. And we, women in the very prime of life (our
70s), wondered briefly if we’d been too ambitious in the planning. There was
night blindness to consider, the availability of handicapped accessibility,
dietary concerns, aching joints from walking, sitting, standing and our stamina or
the lack thereof. And, oh my goodness, did we build enough rest time into the itinerary?!
Gracie suggested we tour the state instead of staying in big city
Anchorage. Sue said she was on-board with whatever was planned. And with
that ringing endorsement from my friends, I proposed the itinerary you've
watched (or read) unfold. Yes the itinerary left us breathless,
but we forged ahead! And this is what I learned.
Having a detailed travel plan from the start kept us focused. We agreed to
be flexible, change plans when needed and accept the unknown. Who knew we
would have to make a Plan B when there was no room for us at any hotel in
Fairbanks? We did figure it out thanks to Sue and
Gracie's friends who came to our rescue - and an overnite in a RV park. How would we manage hundreds of miles
of driving with one less driver than planned? We made it work, taking shifts
and adapting.
Why did it work? How did three women in their prime; Baptist minister,
atheist, experienced and opinionated travel-weary friends make it work. Respect
for each others opinions and knowledge gained from life experience that
sometimes just giving each other space will solve problems.
And, thank you Gracie, for having a large home with two floors. Sometimes
it made all the difference. I’d travel with my two friends again, in a
heartbeat.
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| Sheila, Grace, Sue at Alyeska Resort Tram |




















































